Throughout life you’ll meet a certain type of people : psychopaths/sociopaths ….. the worst kind wearing sheep/cheap disguise.
You may recognize them at first, then for some reason, they’ll get to you, they are smart like that, they will try different combinations until they find your souls password and unlock you step by step.
Next thing you know, you don’t control anything anymore, they use you , sacrifice your youth strength, feelings.
Best thing to do in this situation, is to go through it, like a flue, your body needs to get through it to learn how to protect you from it “special kind of people” next time you encounter them.
You need to go through all the stages to finally become indifferent.
You’ll then have an extra shield that will help you defeat them at every move.
#1 lesson never try to change them, even if they try to make you think that they changed thanks to you. It’s a trap.
#2 Lesson : don’t try to understand them. Their system is fundamentally wrong, this is way they’re psychopaths even when they show kindness it is for selfish reasons. They always showcase it, they’re always trying to prove something (that they are not psychopaths ).
Garde your weaknesses like your life depends on it (your life depends on it) specially the obvious ones, and the ones you underestimate the most, because they will use them and base their whole strategy on them.
#3 when you meet a psychopath flight should be your first instinct. If you can run, run and don’t look back. If your best option is to stick around, if you can avoid the psychopath do it, if not…. Keep reading
#4 if you’re really stuck, you have to win, you can’t loose, because if you loose against a psychopath you loose everything, starting with yourself and finishing with everything you own.
#5 balance and mental health are your weapons, a psychopath always uses your weakness to creep in. Always make sure that you don’t need him nor depend on him and if you do, work on it. Independence is the key.
#6 have a full life, as much as you can so the psychopath represents 0,03% of it, the lesser the better.
#7 between you and every psychopath should be a gardian, somebody smart, kind and strong.
#8 if you can’t find a gardian you should look for another victim that is stronger than you, so the psychopath looses interest in you and keeps himself busy with another challenge.
#9 after a battle of resistance, let him think that he won.
#10 always keep an eye on the exit, if leaving becomes an option run.
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